Resilience Unravelled - Redefining Masculinity and Building Community with Ralph Brewer
Description
In this episode of 'Resilience Unravelled,' host Russell Thackeray welcomes Ralph Brewer from Help for Men. Ralph shares his journey of overcoming personal challenges, including divorce and single fatherhood, which led him to create Help for Men and The Brotherhood.
They discuss the concept of masculinity and its current crisis, touching on toxic masculinity, the role of men, and societal expectations. Ralph emphasises the importance of community, role models, and accountability in personal development and relationship growth. They also explore the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships and the need for men to find secure spaces for vulnerability and growth. Ralph's organisation, Help for Men, offers support through books, conferences, and discussion forums for men worldwide.
00:00 Introduction
00:50 Ralph's Background and Journey
02:01 Exploring Masculinity and Toxic Masculinity
02:44 Pendulum Swing in Male Behaviour
04:38 Cultural Constants and Masculinity
07:02 Gender Roles and Societal Expectations
11:06 Parenting, Education, and Masculinity
13:47 Safe Spaces and Vulnerability
16:03 Accountability in Relationships
16:53 Anxious Men and Avoidant Partners
17:53 Therapy and Group Sessions
19:28 The Role of Community and Role Models
21:30 Victim Mentality and Personal Growth
26:03 Rebuilding and Parenting
30:28 Global Reach and Conferences
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