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TMIT 33: Our Biggest Takeaways from Six Months of Building Family Culture

TMIT 33: Our Biggest Takeaways from Six Months of Building Family Culture

Update: 2025-10-27
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For the past six months we’ve been deeply studying family culture, and we’re more convicted than ever that it’s The Most Important Thing.

Top 4 Takeaways

  1. Start from strength, not scarcity
    Most parenting content starts from a place of deficit. We’re choosing a competence-first lens: you’re already doing a lot right—lean into those moments.
  2. Parenting is management; family culture is leadership
    Scripts fix moments. Culture shapes momentum. Make values explicit and lead the team, not just each child 1:1.
  3. Rituals = culture in action
    Two kinds matter:
    Alignment rituals (aka “necessary and trust building”): quarterly financial check-ins, weekly standups, and problem-solving within family meetings.
    Connection rituals (aka “fun on purpose”): special meals, family games.
  4. Presence is the reward
    If you’d asked us when we started this journey we would have told you it was about planning for some future state. But we’ve learned the magic is happening in real time.

If you take one thing from this episode, let it be this:
Don’t wait for the right time to start shaping your family culture — this is the right time. Pick one ritual, start small, and build from there.

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TMIT 33: Our Biggest Takeaways from Six Months of Building Family Culture

TMIT 33: Our Biggest Takeaways from Six Months of Building Family Culture

Danielle and Greg Neufeld