The Making of a Female Masturbation Video: Connections
Description
Sensual researcher, Elle, gives us a candid account of exactly what inspired her to make an advanced female masturbation video. She describes how she masturbates, the specifics of doing the exercise of Connections to create a full body orgasm and how it adds to her sex life with her partner.
“I love Connections because it makes other sex acts even more sensitive and more sensual. I love it when I kiss somebody and I can feel that sensation, a direct connection to my clitoris…” ~Elle
Since being a sensual researcher for so many years, tell us about your experiences with masturbation and changes that you have had.
Elle: My experience with masturbation has changed a lot over the last several years. Like many people, I never grew up with a course on how to masturbate – where to touch myself, how to touch myself, what was appropriate or good or bad – just how to do it. I remember at a young age I would rub my pussy really hard, and didn’t even know where these sensations were coming from. It wasn’t until later actually, I was in my early 20’s in my first sensuality course, that I realized the orgasm stemmed from my clitoris.
From that point on my touch has changed. It varied, but it became more deliberate when I would touch my clitoris and when I would touch my pussy. Because all of a sudden the sensations would break down and I would feel sensations in my introitus and in my clitoris. I would feel my labia engorge.
Even recently, the way that I masturbate has changed. From when I did my first female masturbation video, Female Masturbation Volume IV Pleasures of a Woman in Orgasm, to doing this one Connections: For Full Body Orgasm. Also, through my experience of watching the other female masturbation videos, I picked things up, like ‘Wow, that looks great on her, I’ll give that a try.’ So that was a lot of fun to even know that my masturbating techniques can expand even further.
I appreciate how you are still expanding. Would you say more about that?
Elle: I can feel the sensations that are coming from my pussy. I’m so deliberate with my finger and the way that I want to touch my pussy that I don’t feel the desire to want to move my body around. And the more still I am, the more aware I am of the sensations that are coming through my pussy and into the rest of my body. Whereas, if when I’m moving, if I move different parts of my body or how I used to masturbate and I would move around a lot, that was actually a distraction. It deterred the sensations from growing in my clit and in my body.
Do you masturbate the same way each time?
Elle: Every time I masturbate is always a unique experience. Even if I think in my mind, “I am going to put the same exact stroke on my clitoris”, there is always a different sensation that can arise from it. Even the moment that I think, “Oh, this feels the same”, if I put my attention elsewhere and I think about my perineum and what’s going on there, then the orgasm looks different. It creates different sensations in my body.
What is a favorite frame from creating this female masturbation video?
Elle: My favorite frame from this experience is there was a specific moment when I was stroking my introitus and my clitoris at the same time and I could just feel the sensation building and building and building at that moment. I took my finger off of my clitoris and I could still feel the compounding effect of the sensations building.
Explain to our listeners and viewers how the technique of Connections work.
Elle: The clitoris is the most sensitive part on my body and when I start stroking another part of my body at the same time it connects the sensation. It’s a lot of fun to use this technique. You could even, after the first time, feel a different sensation such as when I was doing my lip and the sensation building. I love Connections because it makes other acts even more sensitive and more sensual. I love it when I’ll kiss somebody and I can feel that sensation, a direct connection to my clitoris. Oh I love that. Or when my partner is sucking on my nipple, I can feel this zing of sensation as it goes right to my clit. It just feels so good.
What is a description of the technique shown in your female masturbation video?
Elle: Connections are when you develop a connection between your clitoris and another part of your body. It’s something that you can develop over time. So that when another part of your body is being touched, you can feel that sensation in your clit. Or just the opposite, if your clit is being touched you can feel the connection through the rest of your body. It reminds me of this example that was given to me. It’s like a baby. When you touch a baby in one spot, it can feel it everywhere because its whole body is connected. It hasn’t separated one part of its body. The baby senses from one part of its body to the next. Everything is connected. So Connections are a way of re-sensitizing and reconnecting your body to feel everything from one point to another.
When did you learn about Connections?
Elle: I learned Connections when I took my first Common Sensuality course. That was many years ago. The Welcomed Consensus had assigned homework and in that homework were several different exercises that you do and one of those exercises was Connections.
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