The Mental Health Side of Becoming a Dad with Matt Bowman
Description
In this episode, Jamie, Blair, and Blake sit down with their good friend Matt, who just became a dad. We dive into the real highs and lows of new fatherhood — from sleepless nights and baby-led weaning to mental health struggles, identity shifts, and the surprising ways relationships change after bringing a baby home.
This conversation is raw, honest, and full of stories that every dad (and partner) can relate to. If you’ve ever wondered what the first six months of parenthood really look like, this one’s for you.
⏱ Chapters
00:00 – Intro: Why we’re talking fatherhood
00:50 – Matt’s sleep training success
02:00 – Starting solids & scary first foods
05:00 – Baby looking like dad? Reflections on identity
06:30 – Biggest unexpected changes in daily life
08:00 – Balancing freedom, hobbies & parenting
11:20 – Good enough parenting & self-reflection
13:30 – Coming home from the hospital: reality check
16:00 – Building love & attachment over time
18:00 – Baby milestones & finally having fun
20:00 – Jamie’s emotional first moments as a dad
22:00 – Postpartum depression & men’s mental health
25:00 – Therapy, life coaching, and support systems
28:00 – Parenting schedules: the freedom paradox
30:00 – Emotional ups & downs as a new dad
33:00 – Anger, frustration, and healthy outlets
36:00 – Tolerance for chaos & crying
39:00 – Partner communication & tactical teamwork
41:00 – Shifts with friends & family dynamics
43:00 – Parenting with grandparents’ help
46:00 – Looking forward: what dads get excited about
48:00 – Closing reflections
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