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The Unscripted Challenge - Why Difficult Conversations Feel Harder Than Public Speaking

The Unscripted Challenge - Why Difficult Conversations Feel Harder Than Public Speaking

Update: 2025-09-08
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Public speaking is rehearsed, scripted, and predictable. But what about theconversations we can’t plan—the ones that take unexpected turns, stir emotions,or shift roles on the spot? In this episode of The Unscripted Challenge, we explore why real-life conversationsoften feel harder than stepping onto a stage—and how you can navigate them withmore confidence.

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The Unscripted Challenge - Why Difficult Conversations Feel Harder Than Public Speaking

The Unscripted Challenge - Why Difficult Conversations Feel Harder Than Public Speaking

Gerhard Ohrband, MA in Psychology (University of Hamburg/Germany)