This episode delves into the concept of emotional dysregulation in children and provides insights into what goes on inside their developing brains. Your host, Dr. Katie Gorham, explains how children's immature brain systems make them more prone to emotional outbursts and challenging behaviors. She discusses executive functions, which play a crucial role in everyday functioning, and highlights the limitations children face due to their ongoing brain development. The episode also introduces the idea of flipping the lid, a term coined by Dr. Dan Siegel, to describe when the emotional brain takes over and disconnects from the thinking brain. The window of tolerance, which refers to each individual's capacity to handle stress and demands, is also explored. Dr. Katie emphasizes the importance of understanding that emotions dysregulation is a normal part of development and offers strategies to help parents respond effectively when their child's lid is flipped.

Additional Resources: Books written by Dr. Dan Siegel

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Timestamps:

1:14 - What is executive functioning and how does it impact my child?

4:01 - Getting to the core of emotional dysregulation.

6:31 - Exploring the concept of flipping the lid and what it means for child and adolescent behavior.

11:00 - The window of tolerance (and how it causes the lid to flip).

14:14 - Triggers that commonly tip our children into emotional dysregulation territory.

16:49 - Listener challenge of the week!