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Who am I without my uniform? Finding Identity After the Military

Who am I without my uniform? Finding Identity After the Military

Update: 2025-09-16
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The invisible weight of service doesn’t end when the uniform comes off. For Marine Corps veteran Garrett Biss, the toughest battle began after 17 years of active duty—asking, “Who am I without my uniform?”

In this powerful conversation, Garrett introduces the idea of the “dichotomous ego,” where service members are lifted by their role yet driven by constant criticism. When the uniform is gone, many retain only the inner voice saying they’re never enough—fueling anxiety, depression, and even suicidal thoughts.

Garrett shares how embracing authenticity closed the gap between who he was and how he showed up in the world. His message to veterans: choose what truly fills your inner void, not just what numbs it temporarily.

This episode is a must-listen for veterans, loved ones, and anyone seeking to understand the hidden struggles of transition. Don’t miss Garrett’s insights and his TEDx talk, “The Unspoken Trauma that All Veterans Face.”

TEDx Apex Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xT00fqYHHp8

Watch this episode on YouTube:  https://youtu.be/PTnV7hir-CE

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Who am I without my uniform? Finding Identity After the Military

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