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Why Confidence Isn’t Born, It’s Built - Shako Lokman Breaks It Down

Why Confidence Isn’t Born, It’s Built - Shako Lokman Breaks It Down

Update: 2025-06-26
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In this episode, I sat down with executive communication coach Shako Lokman, and wow - this conversation was transformational.

Shako opened up about his personal journey from feeling socially anxious and awkward to becoming a grounded, charismatic leader. What struck me most was his message that confidence isn’t something you’re born with - it’s something you build through inner work, presence, and self-acceptance.

We talked about:

→ The real difference between presence and energy (and how they create charisma)

→ Why trying to “perform” confidence backfires

→ How self-esteem impacts the way we communicate

→ The role of inner child work, emotional surrender, and healing old beliefs

→ Why working with a mentor accelerates true transformation

Shako doesn’t teach quick fixes - he teaches how to become deeply aligned with your most authentic self so you can lead, speak, and connect with ease. Whether you’re navigating leadership, relationships, or self-worth, this episode offers powerful insights you can apply today.

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Why Confidence Isn’t Born, It’s Built - Shako Lokman Breaks It Down

Why Confidence Isn’t Born, It’s Built - Shako Lokman Breaks It Down