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Why do I Feel So Judged?!

Why do I Feel So Judged?!

Update: 2025-08-29
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We explore how our childhood experiences shape our perception of being judged and develop strategies to break free from the weight of others' opinions.

• The feeling of being judged often stems from childhood insecurities and past experiences
• Our brains scan for social threats, especially in new environments
• The inner critic narrates how others see us based on our own insecurities
• We constantly seek evidence that reinforces our negative self-beliefs
• Parents unintentionally perpetuate judgment by focusing on outcomes rather than character traits
• Neurodivergent individuals often receive negative feedback that creates deeper feelings of being judged
• Breaking free requires recognizing thoughts aren't facts and practicing self-compassion
• Setting boundaries with critical people helps create safer relationships
• Some judgment is inevitable, but it doesn't have to define our worth
• Curating social media and surroundings to promote growth rather than perfection reduces self-judgment

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Benavieri Counseling & Coaching
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Active Healing Psychiatric Services
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