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You don't have to perform to be loved

You don't have to perform to be loved

Update: 2025-08-04
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What if you stopped performing for love? In this raw and deeply relatable episode, I'm cracking open the fear of stillness, the pressure to be impressive, and the subtle ways we perform just to feel worthy. From spiraling after a chill weekend to curating confidence after heartbreak, this one is for the overthinkers, the perfectionists, and the ones who secretly feel like they have to "earn" their place in someone’s life.

Whether you're healing from conditional love, navigating post-breakup identity, or just trying to feel okay doing nothing—you’ll walk away feeling seen. It’s not about willpower. It’s about believing you’re enough, even when you’re not impressive.

📌 Plus: a juicy listener question about a “slow burn” or an emotional support situationship you need to weigh in on.

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You don't have to perform to be loved

You don't have to perform to be loved