SEX ED FOR YOU: Where Research Meets Reality

Between Martha Stewart and the trending TradWife content, there’s been a lot of talk lately about women and their roles in society. Today, we dive into the nuances of what it means to be a bitch who bakes casseroles, despite the chastisement of societal norms. Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator & Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach.

This episode is centered around the question of egalitarian health, mostly pertaining to women’s health and the lack of support the American medical system has for women’s health issues. We dive into the following questions and further discuss important nuances of the medical system pertaining to sexual health like racial inequities and holistic medicine. What is patriarchal medicine? What does it look like to have an egalitarian health system? What are qualities of a good health care provider? What is patient centered care? RESOURCES Henrietta Lacks Taking Charge of Your Fertility Period. Vagina: A Reeducation FREE DOWNLOADBALE HANDOUT WILL BE AVAILABLE FRIDAY DEC 13 SIGN UP FOR OUR EMAILS TO BE NOTIFIED! :) Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator & Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach.

In this episode, we discuss the all too often overlooked intersection of religion, specifically Christianity, and sexuality. Because our primary clientele are folks who have some sort of history with religion, we find it deeply important to cover this topic with nuance and care. We dive into Rev. Bev’s "Sex Is Good!" series and tackle questions such as: Who does my body belong to? What is safety-seeking behavior? What is embedded theology? And how to navigate working with educators who hold different belief systems from their clients? 

You asked, we answered. Today’s episode tackles the following 4 questions: Why is there such value placed on the idea of virginity, yet sexual skills are still expected? How do you establish boundaries in a relationship surrounding sex? How can you manage and help a lowered libido due to antidepressants or hormonal medication?  How do you become good at sex? This conversation was so much fun and so informative. We tackle all these questions with the now expected levels of nuance and guidance with tons of resources for you. See below for an abundance of information, resources, and a free download! Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

In this episode, we dive into the complexities of relationship dynamics, exploring the impact of controlling behaviors like phone checks and the role intuition plays in navigating anxious attachment. We unpack the concept of micro-cheating, the blurred lines around flirting, and how self-fulfilling prophecies can shape our perceptions of trust. Plus, we discuss how to define cheating within a relationship and navigate tough conversations about unmet needs, codependency, and boundaries. Cheating Worksheet Available Free on our site! Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

In this episode, we explore the complexities of cheating and relationship boundaries. What is the collective definition of cheating? Using a real-life example, we dive into the nuances of infidelity, the shadow side of sexuality, and maintaining healthy boundaries with exes. We also discuss how to communicate difficult truths with a partner and what it takes to rebuild trust after infidelity.  Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

This episode was recorded on 11/5 before results were announced. There is no mention of results. In this episode, we focus on fostering a welcoming, open conversation about reproductive health, emphasizing that it’s not about telling you what you “should” believe, but rather offering informative insights and creating space for thoughtful disagreement. The episode touches on personal growth, highlighting how one can evolve their views over time with the slogan “I used to believe ____, and then I learned ____, and now I think ____”—showing that changing your mind is a natural and valuable process. We also delve into our personal experiences of shifting perspectives on policies related to sexual and reproductive health. Lastly, we discuss the importance of self-care, especially during stressful or uncertain times, and how comprehensive sexuality education is crucial for informed decision-making, empowerment, and overall well-being. RESOURCES Dara Tucker Circles of Sexuality Handout - FREE! Card game to play with teens Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

In this holiday episode, we ask why Halloween leads to the sexualization of professions such as nursing, firefighting, and, most controversial of all– nuns (nunning? nunnery?). Of course, this leads us back to one of our favorite sources; the circles of sexuality. DOWNLOAD here for free. Truth is, Halloween is just one instance of society writing us all a permission slip to dress however we want, so the question really is– what does it look like to give yourself permission to live your life how you actually want to? We encourage you to look at your personal recipe for a good time (ex. Halloween) and apply it to yourself, your dates, & your free time more often. After all, a recipe is only good if you use it. RESOURCES - The Psychology of Your 20s (H's fav podcast) - Circles of Sexuality Handout FREE - Learn more about the PLISSIT Model - Dr. Jack Morin's book, The Erotic Mind Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

The reality of life is that you have a body. And sometimes, because of a myriad of reasons– ie society, body dysmorphia, etc– there are days where we just hate our bodies. This is truly a universal experience and I hope this episode both equips you with tools to use on those hard days and shows you that you are not alone in this. The conversation today centers around honoring your emotions then making the active decision to help move yourself from a place of disgust with self to a place of appreciation. RESOURCESSonya Renee Taylor the body is not an apologyWinxHealthBrick App (lock your phone physically)Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today!Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

Do you find yourself hating your birthday every year? Maybe you’re used to a heaping sense of disappointment when you allow yourself to anticipate a perfect day that ends up falling short of your unspoken expectations. In this episode, we talk about Lauren’s perfect birthday weekend– celebrating her daughter’s birthday and her own. Lauren gives us her recipe for a perfect birthday– asking for what you want. Then, Holland talks about her most recent disappointing birthday experience that fell short of communicated desires and expectations; proving a relationship was not the right fit. If you’re not yet convinced of how the Wheel of Consent is integrated into every single human experience; this episode may just convince you. Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

Well, when you put your life on a podcast you should expect to be held accountable for your actions. We are not perfect, but we do our best to hold ourselves accountable for our actions and impact. Lauren leads us in a game that encourages the players to define themselves apart from their relationships; guiding us to think about how our values shape the lives we lead. We talk through one of our favorite worksheets that walks you through Accidents vs Violations and steps to repair. RESOURCES REPAIR WORKSHEET (CODE: FUCKUP)  MX Sizzle Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator & Embodied Coach.

Lauren returns from her training-- Like A Pro: The Wheel of Consent with even more wisdom than before. Lauren breaks down the WOC and tells us more about the basic principles of consent. Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

Seasons of change often bring immense discomfort, including bodily discomfort. Lauren takes us through her weekend of detrimental sickness that led to clarity in decisions to close important chapters and move forward into new opportunities. Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

A conversation centered around the JOY that comes from trusting your own intuition and following through for self. Holland talks about being recognized in public for the first time as well as a recent recognition from a friend. Lauren gives her in depth story about how she came into sexuality education and the internal wisdom she had to follow to find it.  Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator.

Episode 43 is at its core, about the fact that self-care, in whatever form you most need, is not villainous. I discuss my most recent experience with revoking consent in favor of self-care and Lauren touches on respecting her own needs when others draw on her energy. We also discuss a new modality that Lauren is learning about in her Embodied Coaching Course: MEBES. Love, H 03:30 Consent & Revoking Consent 08:00 Pleasure Cannot Be Given or Received- Dr. Betty Martin 09:30 Be the Villain in Someone Else’s Story 13:20 Meh Means No 16:00 Schedule Space for Sex 18:30 Willing vs Unwilling 22:30 How Did H Cancel Her DC Trip?26:00 H’s Situationship with Clear Boundaries 32:26 MEBES 40:00 Pls Cancel “Hey How Are You” 44:50 Self Care Isn’t Villainous Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator. Looking to expand your own sexuality education? Check out our monthly membership program, HEMLOCK. At only $10 a month you'll have access to the tools you need to begin to reclaim your sexuality for yourself!⁠ (for femme-presenting people only at this time)

Follow along as we walk through the process of selecting new values for SEX ED FOR YOU; detailing mine and Lauren’s personal stories of why values are so important to us as business people and just plain ol’ people people.  Values Blog Post Sex Ed Prep for Parents  Find Your Why Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator. Looking to expand your own sexuality education? Check out our monthly membership program, HEMLOCK. At only $10 a month you'll have access to the tools you need to begin to reclaim your sexuality for yourself!⁠ (for femme-presenting people only at this time)

Here it is!! The most comprehensive list of all the products, games, and tools we recommend to clients and friends alike. This list will give you everything you need to know about the some of the coolest brands available in the field of sex and sexuality. We're Not Really Strangers The Date Deck Intimacy Cards The KIWI; code STRETCHY OhNuts; code SEXEDFORYOU Lauren's OhNuts story in Episode 5 Intimate Rose Pelvic Wand Momotaro Apotheca Salve Momotaro Apotheca Suppository Emergency Contraceptives: Julie and Winx The Future Method, Dr. Goldstein's Butt Seriously Dame "Zee" Bullet Dame "Eva" Vibrator Maude Vibrators and Wellness Thump by Bellesa The Slippery Stuff Lube Snail Dispenser SKYN Latex-Free Condoms ONE Condoms Sizing Kit Lorals Safe Oral Sex Undies SEFY Episode on STI Testing Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator. Looking to expand your own sexuality education? Check out our monthly membership program, HEMLOCK. At only $10 a month you'll have access to the tools you need to begin to reclaim your sexuality for yourself!⁠ (for femme-presenting people only at this time)

Lauren and I spend this episode talking about the ways we find purpose in our lives, hardships, and pain. From really difficult menstrual cycles to surviving abuse, we truly believe that everything we’ve each been through has purpose in the greater tapestry of humanity. I touch on my Oura Ring with a little insight on how I manage my cycle tracking. Lauren gives us a quick run down of the importance of the lovely Capricorn moon we all experienced on the weekend of July 21; how deeply this moon affected both of us is so cool! We spend the final half of the podcast discussing the power of our favorite phrase and how it so accurately described my previous weekend– notice, trust, and value your needs, wants, and desires. Love always! H 01:55 The Oura Ring & Cycle Tracking 04:37 The July Full Moon 05:50 The Moon and Menstruation 09:30 Finding Purpose in Pain 15:20 Questions to Ask Yourself Monthly Dr. Christine Page 22:00 Making Space for What’s to Come 26:37 Attuning to Self Amongst Other 31:00 The Power of Journaling 38:42 Leaning Into What You DO Want  44:00 Types of Love 46:18 The Tapestry of Humanity 53:10 Second Mountain People 57:50 Lauren’s Weekend Tarot Pull ;) Monthly Questions by Dr. Christine R Page Emotional Agility Free Downloads on our Site Oura Ring Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator. Looking to expand your own sexuality education? Check out our monthly membership program, HEMLOCK. At only $10 a month you'll have access to the tools you need to begin to reclaim your sexuality for yourself!⁠ (for femme-presenting people only at this time)

A short and sweet episode to catch you up on some behind the scenes of Sex Ed For You, including my new title and what it means to us. Then, we dive into introducing you to our newly improved blog!! We're here to bring you the better version of Carrie Bradshaw you never knew you needed. ;) Love always, H 02:00 Holland’s Title Change 03:30 Lauren is good at math 05:12 Holland is indeed killing it 06:50 What a Free Consult Looks Like 07:40 What is a CC&CC? 09:06 Your New Carrie Bradshaw 13:35 What Happens when Dirty Talk Goes Wrong 17:30 Why We Shouldn’t Use Anatomical Terms as Insults 20:35 The Power of Words 23:30 “Come for Me” 25:15 The New Spectrum of Consent 27:35 When Does “Dirty Talk” Cross the Line to Manipulation? 29:45 Our Scars Can Be Doors RESOURCES: Sign Up for Emails!! Read the Blog: 7 Secrets to Devious Dirty Talk Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator. Looking to expand your own sexuality education? Check out our monthly membership program, HEMLOCK. At only $10 a month you'll have access to the tools you need to begin to reclaim your sexuality for yourself!⁠ (for femme-presenting people only at this time)

SEX ED PREP FOR PARENTS COURSE IS NOW LIVE!! In this episode, we’re letting you in on the inner workings of Sex Ed For You… hint: a lot’s changing! Plus, some updates about our very own version of the bachelorette in the most coded language ever, Holland’s love life ;) Hope y’all enjoy. H 02:08 Holland’s Job Title is Changing! 08:52 Holland’s Contract 13:36 The Root of The Issue– Finance 15:52 Tying in the Wheel of Consent 22:05 The Week of Chaos 32:47 Accident vs Violation 34:20 How & Why We Do Work Differently (feat tears) 39:00 Love Life Updates 41:50 So He’s A Cookie… ? 46:00 What Happens When Values Aren’t Aligned 50:05 We Want What’s Best For YOU!!!! 53:00 Our Version of The Bachelorette 58:20 Trusting Intuition 1:02:50 Connecting Your Body and Mind’s Intuition 1:06:40 Surround Yourself with People Who Trust You 1:09:45 A Case for Making Better Friendships Click here to request a FREE 15-Minute Consult today! Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how we" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own!  Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you.  Please note: Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator. Looking to expand your own sexuality education? Check out our monthly membership program, HEMLOCK. At only $10 a month you'll have access to the tools you need to begin to reclaim your sexuality for yourself!⁠ (for femme-presenting people only at this time)