Good conversations lead to connection and intimacy. The best way to facilitate a good conversation is to ask great questions. Whether you feel like you know your spouse well or not, there are questions that will be helpful. The spouse who becomes an expert in the art of asking questions is the spouse who will win their spouse’s heart. Susan and I will be going through ten questions to ask your spouse every year (or more often if you’d like).

Discussion Recap

Here are 10 Questions to Ask Your Spouse Every Year:

1. What are you enjoying most about our relationship right now?

2. What has been your biggest surprise in the last year?

3. Where would you like our relationship to be this time next year?

4. How are you feeling about life in general?

5. What are your dreams for the future?

6. If you could go anywhere, where would you go?

7. How do you think we’re doing financially?

8. What do you want to do this year to improve our health?

9. What is one thing you would change about how our family relates to one another?

10. What is the one thing I give my time to that you think would be better spent somewhere else?

Episode Resources

• 5 Tips to Improve Conversations with Your Spouse
• Why You Need a Relationship Bucket List