What if it's all easier than we think? What if we're supposed to be doing less and trying softer rather than trying harder?

In this episode I talk more about the absence of doing all the things I used to do out of fear/anxiety. And how now that I'm not doing them so much, there's space. And the space is uncomfortable. It brings up a lot of unknown. Bc at least when you're doing things that aren't aligned, you know what comes next. It's at least familiar even if it sucks. But when you stop, and you majorly slow down and create space that wasn't there before... at some point, something is gonna come along and fill that space. If you can surrender and trust, and hold out for something more aligned to come in... it will. 

Here's what randomly came along for me: resuming my goal to become fluent in Spanish. Something I had given up on a long time ago, but it got reintroduced to me through a method that's genuinely fun and enjoyable. I talk all about it in this episode, continuing to unpack this question of hmm what if we're not supposed to be doing more or trying harder? What if we're just supposed to be doing more of what we actually like, what feels natural or right to us. The path of least resistance, the path of more genuine fun and interest. The path that's hard for some of us to step onto unless we build enough sense of safety/trust/surrender to leave the path that's familiar and worn.

Dreaming Spanish