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#34 Master Xtac: The 12 Rules of Power, Leather Tradition & BDSM as a Sexual Orientation

#34 Master Xtac: The 12 Rules of Power, Leather Tradition & BDSM as a Sexual Orientation

Update: 2025-08-26
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What does Mastery really mean?

In this episode, Master Xtac — a leatherman, educator, and 24/7 practitioner — opens up about his journey through power exchange, love, and leadership within BDSM.

We discuss:

• His 12-part teaching series on power exchange and mastery.

• Nietzsche’s idea of chaos and creativity in BDSM scenes

• BDSM as sexual orientation vs. serious leisure.

• How a Master proposes marriage to a slave.

• His advice for young Dominants and the legacy of leather culture.

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Stay perverted,

Emma

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#34 Master Xtac: The 12 Rules of Power, Leather Tradition & BDSM as a Sexual Orientation

#34 Master Xtac: The 12 Rules of Power, Leather Tradition & BDSM as a Sexual Orientation