DiscoverThe Erotic Realm#43 The Monogamous Dominant: Athos Khan on Jung, Darkness & the Architecture of Intimacy
#43 The Monogamous Dominant: Athos Khan on Jung, Darkness & the Architecture of Intimacy

#43 The Monogamous Dominant: Athos Khan on Jung, Darkness & the Architecture of Intimacy

Update: 2025-10-28
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What happens when philosophy meets BDSM?

In this episode, writer and Dominant Athos Khan joins M to explore the intimate architecture of power, devotion, and consciousness inside monogamous kink.

We discuss:

• The Jungian concept of “making the darkness conscious” through BDSM.

• Monogamy as a site for transformation, not limitation.

• The flow state of dominance — where eroticism becomes meditation.

• The archetypes that shape desire and relationship roles.

• Emotional vs. sexual free use and what gendered desire reveals about intimacy.

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Stay perverted,

Emma

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#43 The Monogamous Dominant: Athos Khan on Jung, Darkness & the Architecture of Intimacy

#43 The Monogamous Dominant: Athos Khan on Jung, Darkness & the Architecture of Intimacy