DiscoverThe Erotic Realm#36 The Disciplinarian Domme: MistressBaton on Spanking, Sadism & the Psychology of Pain
#36 The Disciplinarian Domme: MistressBaton on Spanking, Sadism & the Psychology of Pain

#36 The Disciplinarian Domme: MistressBaton on Spanking, Sadism & the Psychology of Pain

Update: 2025-09-09
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What's it like to be a disciplinarian?

In this episode, MistressBaton — a South African disciplinarian Domme — shares her story of power, discipline, and erotic devotion.

We discuss:

  • The spark of sadism and why it’s not always sexual.
  • Misconceptions about sadists and corporal punishment.
  • Research showing BDSM sadists score lower on “dark traits”.
  • Baumeister’s idea of masochism as an escape from the self.
  • What makes a spanking scene unforgettable.

and so much more!

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Thanks for listening!

Stay perverted,

Emma

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#36 The Disciplinarian Domme: MistressBaton on Spanking, Sadism & the Psychology of Pain

#36 The Disciplinarian Domme: MistressBaton on Spanking, Sadism & the Psychology of Pain