DiscoverThe Erotic Realm#37 From Pro-Domme to Submissive: Valkyrie on Regression, ABDL & Self-Domination
#37 From Pro-Domme to Submissive: Valkyrie on Regression, ABDL & Self-Domination

#37 From Pro-Domme to Submissive: Valkyrie on Regression, ABDL & Self-Domination

Update: 2025-09-16
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Why do people eroticize regression, petplay, and degradation — and what does it mean to be your own Dom?

In this episode, Valkyrie shares her journey from Pro-Domme to submissive pet. We explore the misunderstood kinks of ABDL, degradation, and regression, and end with her powerful reflection on self-domination.

You’ll hear about:

  • How she shifted from dominating others to surrendering herself — and what that taught her about power.
  • Petplay & ABDL: the emotional logic behind regression, care, and erotic release.
  • Degradation vs. liberation: when words sting, and when they open new erotic truths.
  • Why stigma around “dark” kinks often misses the intimacy behind them.
  • Valkyrie’s insight on being her own Dom — and why every submissive should cultivate inner authority.

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Thanks for listening!

Stay perverted,

Emma

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#37 From Pro-Domme to Submissive: Valkyrie on Regression, ABDL & Self-Domination

#37 From Pro-Domme to Submissive: Valkyrie on Regression, ABDL & Self-Domination