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39: Losing Yourself in a Role: How to Find Your Identity Beyond Your Job Title or Being ‘The Mom’

39: Losing Yourself in a Role: How to Find Your Identity Beyond Your Job Title or Being ‘The Mom’

Update: 2025-04-28
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In this episode, I explore what happens when we lose ourselves in the roles we play—doctor, parent, caregiver—and forget who we are beyond them.

We cover:

  • How tying self-worth to titles leads to burnout and identity loss
  • Societal pressure to equate value with productivity
  • My personal journey of redefining myself outside of being “just a doctor”

I share practical ways to reconnect with your true self:

  • Spend time alone
  • Revisit forgotten joys
  • Ask: Who am I beyond what I do?

You are enough—just as you are. It’s time to reclaim your authentic self.

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39: Losing Yourself in a Role: How to Find Your Identity Beyond Your Job Title or Being ‘The Mom’

39: Losing Yourself in a Role: How to Find Your Identity Beyond Your Job Title or Being ‘The Mom’

Dr. Angela Downey