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41: When they Stop Talking: The Emotional Toll of the Silent Treatment

41: When they Stop Talking: The Emotional Toll of the Silent Treatment

Update: 2025-05-05
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In this episode, I explore the silent treatment—why it’s used, how it hurts, and how to recognize it as emotional withdrawal, not healthy conflict resolution.

We cover:

  • How the silent treatment triggers shame, anxiety, and confusion
  • Why some people use it (control, immaturity, learned behavior)
  • The lasting damage it causes in relationships

I share personal stories and offer tools to:

  • Set boundaries
  • Recognize your worth
  • Reflect on your own conflict patterns

Silence shouldn’t be used as a weapon. Healthier communication is possible.

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41: When they Stop Talking: The Emotional Toll of the Silent Treatment

41: When they Stop Talking: The Emotional Toll of the Silent Treatment

Dr. Angela Downey