DiscoverThe Post-Separation Abuse Podcast77. When loving the other parent feels like betrayal - How to support your child without making them choose
77. When loving the other parent feels like betrayal - How to support your child without making them choose

77. When loving the other parent feels like betrayal - How to support your child without making them choose

Update: 2025-11-19
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It’s one of the hardest parts of post-separation life: your child still loves, misses, or defends the parent who hurt you.
In this deeply compassionate episode, Danielle Black explores the grief, anger, and fear beneath that experience - and explains why children often align with the parent who holds the power, not the peace.


You’ll learn how unresolved trauma and nervous-system dysregulation affect emotional safety, how to avoid the “mirror trap,” and how to become the lighthouse your child can always find.
Through lived experience and trauma-informed insight, Danielle shows that helping children stay emotionally whole means letting them love both parents - without feeling forced to choose.


About Danielle Black:

Danielle Black is a respected authority in child-focused post-separation parenting in Australia. With over twenty years’ experience in education, counselling and coaching - and her own lived experience navigating a complex separation - she helps parents advocate strategically and protect their children’s safety and wellbeing.

Learn more at danielleblackcoaching.com.au
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This podcast is for educational purposes only and not legal advice. Please seek independent legal, medical, financial, or mental health advice for your situation.

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77. When loving the other parent feels like betrayal - How to support your child without making them choose

77. When loving the other parent feels like betrayal - How to support your child without making them choose

Danielle Black