The #1 Predictor of Health and Happiness (Hint: It’s Not Exercise or Diet!)

What if the secret to lifelong health wasn’t about your workout routine or what’s on your plate but about who’s sitting across the table from you?

In this episode, we dive into the groundbreaking Harvard Study of Adult Development (the world’s longest-running study on happiness) and the incredible science showing that relationships are the most powerful predictor of long-term health.

You’ll learn:

• How strong friendships protect against heart disease, diabetes, and even dementia
• Why women’s health benefits especially from quality connections
• The “tend and befriend” stress response that lowers cortisol and boosts resilience
• How social fitness compares to physical fitness (spoiler: it’s surprisingly close!)
• Practical tips for building deeper, more joyful connections

Whether you’re catching up with a bestie, joining a new group, or just craving more connection, this episode is your reminder that friendship isn’t optional—it’s essential.

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The #1 predictor of a happy & healthy life: https://wellness-big-sis-the-pod.captivate.fm/episode/29-the-1-predictor-of-a-happy-healthy-life-plus-creating-cozy-fall-vibes-dating-your-friends/

https://www.nytimes.com/2025/09/04/opinion/riffing-banter-friendship-connection.html 

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00:00- 00:17 Intro

00:18- 00:22 Introduction to November's Theme: Friendships and Gratitude

00:23- 00:37 The Number One Predictor of a Happy and Healthy Life

00:38- 02:25 Importance of Relationships in Wellness

02:26- 05:21 Research Studies on Relationships and Health

05:22- 07:47 Gender Differences in Relationship Benefits

07:48- 13:38 Social Fitness vs. Physical Fitness

13:39- 14:14 Neap Protein 

14:15- 20:00 The Power of Riffing Over Small Talk

20:01- 25:26 Friendsgiving Hosting Tips and Tricks

25:27- 27:08 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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