Cliff speaks with Tem Ezimokhai, a teacher who is also the host of the brilliant podcast Helping Teachers Thrive. She helps teachers level up and become the best educators they can be. Tem shares some powerful insights into teachers identifying special needs and how parents and teachers can work together more effectively. They also discuss masking, EHCPs, classroom routines and why, often, it´s the little things that make a difference.

Whether your child has a diagnosis or you're still trying to figure this out, this conversation is packed with heartfelt perspectives that can really help you feel more informed, empowered and connected.

EPISODE REVEALS

• Real collaboration between parents and teachers can be life changing. 

• Build bridges between home and school.

• Children are really good at masking, especially at school. Better than many parents realise.

• Teachers in the UK need much better training to help them identify ADHD.

• Many teachers have no idea how coping strategies work. If they don´t understand, they don´t always buy in and are less supportive.

• Securing the right EHCP is still unbelievably difficult. Cliff shares some tips.

• Address breakdowns in communication with specific teachers early on. Once both parties truly understand each other things drastically improve.

• With the right training and support teachers can get the best out of every child.

BEST MOMENTS

“The strength is in numbers, so if we can get more teachers on board, more parents on board, together we can achieve so much."

"Influence those leaders and get some positive change.” 

"A happy student is one that learns better."

"Teachers need to be themselves and have fun."

“If there's anyone out there that is going through an immediate mediation. Make sure your child attends that meeting. Don't do it on your own.”

RESOURCES

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EPISODE RESOURCES

Tem Ezimokhai 

Link to podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/helping-teachers-thrive/id1681843058

Email: tem@helpingteachersthrive.com

Linktree: https://linktr.ee/temsteachingtips

Instagram: instagram.com/temsteachingtips

LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tem-ezimokhai-23306a263

Instagram: @helpingteachersthrive

Facebook: Helping Teachers Thrive

TikTok: @helpingteachersthrive

CONTACT ME

Instagram: @cliff_kilmister08

Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/cliff.kilmister/⁠

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HOST BIO

Cliff Kilmister is a dedicated parent, advocate, and cat whisperer with firsthand experience raising a child with autism, ADHD, and Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD). Having navigated the challenges of school refusal, meltdowns, and sensory sensitivities, Cliff brings an empathetic, real-world perspective to the podcast. When he's not helping his child thrive, he’s dodging the evil stares of his three cats, who are plotting to take over the world (fortunately, they still haven’t figured out how to use the tin opener). Cliff offers practical advice, expert insights, and personal stories to help families facing similar struggles. Cliff is focused on connecting with professionals and networks to raise awareness about the growing need for the education system to adapt to the increasing neurodiverse population. Join the community on Patreon to share experiences, access exclusive content, and work together for change!