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Butt Fun: How to Start & How to Avoid Traumatic Mistakes

Butt Fun: How to Start & How to Avoid Traumatic Mistakes

Update: 2024-11-04
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Today we’re talking about butt stuff – all things anal pleasure. The rear end is the other half of your pelvis and has loads of nerve endings to enjoy, but it can also be a place of shame, pain and trauma when we aren't careful. I’m going to give you some perspectives on releasing shame and expectations. I'll also cover in detail the Cardinal Rules of Butt Fun so you can stay on the pleasure side of the equation rather than the pain and trauma side. As usual, I’m going to end on an invitation to explore on your own, and this exercise is really important for those of you starting out with butt play, or if you’ve had bad experiences in the past. We'll also cover good butt-safe toys, hygiene, communication, pacing, lube, and all the details to help you be successful – which means every one has fun and no one gets hurt.



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Butt Fun: How to Start & How to Avoid Traumatic Mistakes

Butt Fun: How to Start & How to Avoid Traumatic Mistakes

Laura Jurgens, Ph.D.