In this engaging episode of the "Love, Sex, and Leadership" podcast, I dive into transformative concepts with Joshua Wenner, who brings a unique blend of emotional resilience and tantric wisdom to the table. Wenner defines emotional resilience as the ability to bounce back and maintain emotional flexibility under stress, emphasizing that many people operate in a state of emotional reactivity due to deep-rooted neural patterns. He introduces a framework called CPR (Conscious awareness, Pause, Regulation) to aid in emotional regulation, helping individuals disrupt habitual responses and foster a state of presence and choice. Throughout our conversation, Wenner underscores the importance of daily practices like breathwork to enhance personal awareness and presence, noting that many people live disconnected from their bodies, primarily operating from their heads. This disconnection is often worsened by unresolved grief and trauma, leading to a state of stress and emotional survival. We also explore the intricate relationship between emotional regulation and sexuality, particularly how shame and inadequacy can affect men. Wenner explains that confronting these vulnerabilities can lead to profound personal growth and deeper connections with partners. He shares insights from his documentary "The Gifts of Grief," which documents his personal journey through grief after losing his brother, aiming to foster a grief-informed world. Grief, as Wenner sees it, is a natural response to change and can be a powerful tool for personal transformation. Additionally, he discusses new ventures, including a women's program designed to foster stronger relationships with high-value men, emphasizing the importance of women learning to regulate their emotions and recognize healthy relationship dynamics. This episode is rich with analogies and life lessons, calling for a deeper awareness of our emotional states and how we navigate the complex spheres of love, sex, and leadership.