DiscoverBe a Happier ParentEp 17: What Happens When Dads are Put in Charge? With Dr Marte Bergan
Ep 17: What Happens When Dads are Put in Charge? With Dr Marte Bergan

Ep 17: What Happens When Dads are Put in Charge? With Dr Marte Bergan

Update: 2025-09-18
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Check out Marte’s full thesis here:


https://ora.ox.ac.uk/objects/uuid:800e3289-08ad-449f-a00d-f5da87f1100d


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Keywords


gender equality, Norway, parental leave, daddy quota, family dynamics, cultural values, work-life balance, childcare, feminism, societal norms




Summary


In this conversation, Marte discusses the cultural and governmental factors that have shaped gender equality in Norway, particularly in relation to parental leave policies and the daddy quota. The discussion explores the evolving roles of fathers in childcare, the dynamics of resentment in relationships, and the long-term impacts of these policies on family life. Marte emphasizes the importance of shared responsibilities and the need for societal change to foster a more egalitarian approach to parenting and work-life balance.




Takeaways


Gender equality is deeply embedded in Norwegian culture.

Government policies have played a crucial role in promoting gender equality.

The daddy quota encourages fathers to take an active role in childcare.

Cultural values in Norway prioritize family time and work-life balance.

Mothers often retain the managerial role in family dynamics.

Resentment can arise from unequal distribution of parenting responsibilities.

Parental leave policies impact long-term family relationships.

Fathers in Norway are seen as experts in childcare due to their involvement.

The corporate culture in Norway supports flexible working hours for both parents.

Societal norms need to evolve to support shared parenting responsibilities.




Titles


Exploring Gender Equality in Norway

The Impact of the Daddy Quota




Sound bites


"It's in our national DNA."

"We value family time."

"It's use it or lose it."




Chapters


00:00 Cultural Foundations of Parenthood

04:03 The Daddy Quota: A Game Changer

06:55 Work-Life Balance in Norway vs. the UK

08:37 The Impact of Gender Roles on Parenting

11:06 Men's Perspectives on Parenting and Work

13:35 Long-Term Effects of Parental Leave Policies

16:09 The Importance of Shared Responsibilities

19:03 Conclusions and Future Directions

31:42 Work-Life Balance in Norway vs. the UK

34:45 Resentment in Parenting Roles

36:51 Judgment and Gender Expectations

40:53 Redefining Parenting Roles

45:56 The Manager vs. Expert Dynamic

49:57 Cultural Shifts in Parenting

52:43 The System of Gendered Parenting

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Ep 17: What Happens When Dads are Put in Charge? With Dr Marte Bergan

Ep 17: What Happens When Dads are Put in Charge? With Dr Marte Bergan

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