Ep #38: Are You Using Your Situationship to Avoid Your Life?
Description
In this solo episode, I’m diving deep into the truth about situationships - not just what they are, but why we find ourselves in them. This conversation was inspired by a listener who shared how much she loved my previous episode on secure situationships, and a private client who realized she was using hers to avoid parts of her life that needed her attention.
I’m sharing my own story of how casual dating once became both a healthy outlet and a sneaky form of escapism and how I learned to tell the difference. Because sometimes, a situationship can genuinely add joy, fun, and connection to your life… and other times, it’s just keeping you from facing what’s really going on.
If you’ve ever felt like your situationship started out exciting but slowly began to drain you, or if you suspect you might be using love as a distraction, this episode will be the honest, loving reality check you need.
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
• The difference between conscious casual dating and avoidant escapism
• Why some situationships empower you and others drain you
• How to spot when you’re using dating to avoid your emotions or responsibilities
• The key questions to ask yourself when it’s time to let go
• How to refocus your energy back on yourself and your goals without losing your sense of fun and connection
🎧 Tune in now! And if this episode resonates, send me a DM on Instagram—I’d love to hear your thoughts!
Previous ep on 'Secure Situationships Are a Thing - Here’s How to Have One': https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-secure-love-club-podcast/id1792782864?i=1000718346075
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