DiscoverThe Secure Love Club PodcastEp #42: The Real Secret To Becoming Secure (that no one talks about)
Ep #42: The Real Secret To Becoming Secure (that no one talks about)

Ep #42: The Real Secret To Becoming Secure (that no one talks about)

Update: 2025-11-10
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In this episode, I’m talking about something that almost nobody in the anxious attachment / healing space is talking about enough… and yet it’s one of THE most important pieces of what actually gets you secure results.
Consistency. Not perfection. Not being “fixed.” Not never slipping up. Consistency.

Because the truth is, you will have setbacks on this journey. You will have moments where your old patterns pull you back in. You will have moments of self-sabotage. And THIS is where most people opt out, collapse, shame spiral… and change the goal entirely instead of changing the behaviour. But the women who become secure? They learn how to stay with themselves THROUGH the setbacks, and because of that, they keep moving forward and they get the result.

Today, I’m breaking this down with real examples, real scenarios, real mindset shifts, and the exact questions you need to ask yourself to get yourself back on the horse and moving toward the version of you who actually gets the love she desires.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
• Why your brain tries to convince you to change the goal instead of changing your behaviour
• How setbacks are a NORMAL part of the journey — not a sign you’re failing
• What separates the people who get secure results from the ones who don’t
• How to stop making slip-ups mean something about your worth
• How to start building the kind of self-trust that becomes unshakeable in relationships

🎧 Tune in now! And if this episode resonates, send me a DM on Instagram—I’d love to hear your thoughts!

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Ep #42: The Real Secret To Becoming Secure (that no one talks about)

Ep #42: The Real Secret To Becoming Secure (that no one talks about)

Mimi Watt