DiscoverF*CK Trauma PodcastEp 49: The Real Reason You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People (and How to Finally Stop It)
Ep 49: The Real Reason You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People (and How to Finally Stop It)

Ep 49: The Real Reason You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People (and How to Finally Stop It)

Update: 2025-10-31
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If you have an anxious attachment style or find yourself constantly attracting emotionally unavailable, avoidant, or inconsistent partners, this episode will change everything.

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In this powerful episode, Candice Tamara reveals the real reason you keep repeating the same relationship patterns — and why it’s not about them being avoidant or unavailable, but about the mirror of your own fears, wounds, and self-concept.

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You’ll learn:✨ How your fear of abandonment, rejection, commitment, vulnerability, and being “too much” creates emotional unavailability within yourself.
.✨ Why every partner is a mirror reflecting your beliefs, attachment wounds, and nervous system state — not your worth.
.✨ How to heal anxious attachment patterns at the root so you can finally attract and hold secure, consistent love.
✨ The exact mindset and embodiment shifts Candice used to go from anxious and avoidant dynamics to being securely loved and chosen.

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This episode will help you see relationships differently - not as something happening to you, but as a reflection of what’s ready to be healed within you. When you stop abandoning yourself, you stop attracting people who abandon you.

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Want to go deeper? My masterclass Stop Attracting Avoidants is now live.

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Break the cycle of chasing avoidant, emotionally unavailable love and become the secure version of you who only creates consistent, available relationships.This masterclass works whether single or in a relationship to stop avoidant patterns. 

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⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to join Stop Attracting Avoidants now⁠⁠

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Connect with me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@candicetamara_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Ways to work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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Ep 49: The Real Reason You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People (and How to Finally Stop It)

Ep 49: The Real Reason You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People (and How to Finally Stop It)

Candice Tamara