If you’ve ever tried to “fix” a relationship, change someone’s behaviour, or get consistency from someone who keeps pulling away… this episode will completely shift the way you see love, relationships and attachment.

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In today’s episode, I’m diving deep into self-concept, the Law of Assumption, and how your inner state quietly creates the relationship patterns you keep experiencing - especially if you struggle with anxious attachment, relationship anxiety, or attracting emotionally unavailable partners.

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You’ll learn:

✨ Why you can’t change someone’s behaviour without first changing your own self-concept
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✨ How the Law of Assumption shapes your relationships (even when you don’t realise it)
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✨ Why inconsistency, mixed signals and emotional unavailability keep showing up
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✨ How your nervous system and inner child influence your relationship patterns
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✨ The deeper reason you attract avoidants or hot-and-cold partners
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✨ How to shift into the identity of being chosen, prioritised and emotionally safe
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✨ What happens when you change the story you’re telling about love
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✨ How to use your triggers as data in relationships instead of spiralling into anxiety

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This is the episode that finally helps you understand why the same patterns repeat, why people don’t change when you try to fix them… and how to transform your relationships from the inside out.

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If you’re ready to stop chasing love, stop attracting avoidants, and become the securely-attached version of you who naturally attracts emotional safety and consistent love — this will be life-changing.

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Want to go deeper?

Free Masterclass: Becoming Secure You

Masterclass: Stop Attracting Avoidants

Masterclass: Stop Them Pulling Away

Signature Program: Anxious to Secure in Love

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