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Ep 5. Assertiveness: The Power of Saying Yes, No, and Not Feeling Guilty

Ep 5. Assertiveness: The Power of Saying Yes, No, and Not Feeling Guilty

Update: 2025-04-21
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In this episode of Thrive Forward, Daniel McInerney and Vanessa Vanderhoek explore the essential skill of assertiveness, discussing its importance for self-respect, physical and mental health, and effective communication. They differentiate between assertiveness, passivity, and aggression, and delve into how childhood and professional experiences and cultural backgrounds influence our ability to be assertive. The conversation includes practical strategies for improving assertiveness, navigating workplace dynamics, and understanding the health implications of being assertive or passive. The episode concludes with key takeaways and encouragement to practice assertiveness in daily life.


 


To learn how to enhance your assertiveness today, check out Daniel & Vanessa’s latest articles with practical tips:



 


The key takeaways



  • Assertiveness is about clarity and respect.

  • Cultural conditioning can hinder assertiveness.

  • Passive communication often leads to resentment and frustration.

  • Assertiveness can improve mental and physical health.

  • Practice saying no without guilt.

  • Body language plays a crucial role in assertiveness.

  • Understanding your values is key to assertiveness.

  • Conflict avoidance can lead to stress and burnout.

  • Small daily practices can build assertiveness skills.

  • Helping others develop assertiveness can change lives.


 


Chapters


00:00 - Understanding Assertiveness


05:00 - The Spectrum of Communication Styles


08:39 - Cultural Influences on Assertiveness


11:44 - Practical Frameworks for Assertiveness


15:35 - Navigating Workplace Dynamics


20:02 - Micro Assertions in Daily Life


24:23 - Body Language and Assertiveness


28:33 - Health Implications of Assertiveness


31:30 - Key Takeaways and Closing Thoughts


 


To connect with Vanessa Vanderhoek, follow her on Instagram @thehealthygutnutritionist, YouTube @thehealthygutnutritionist, Facebook @thehealthygutnutritionist, and through her website www.thehealthygutnutritionist.com.


 


To connect with Daniel McInerney, follow him on LinkedIn http://linkedin.com/in/daniel-mcinerney, and through his website www.leadforward.com.au.

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Ep 5. Assertiveness: The Power of Saying Yes, No, and Not Feeling Guilty

Ep 5. Assertiveness: The Power of Saying Yes, No, and Not Feeling Guilty

Vanessa Vanderhoek & Daniel McInerney