In today's episode, Karrie and Kathy discuss the concept of fawning as a coping mechanism is introduced, highlighting the tendency to please others in order to feel safe. The fear of confrontation and the importance of maintaining autonomy in relationships are also discussed. This conversation explores the concept of fawning and its impact on vulnerability. It delves into childhood traumas and emotional triggers, highlighting the importance of understanding and tolerating these emotions. The role of the amygdala and prefrontal cortex in regulating responses is discussed, along with the significance of story work in resetting the amygdala. The conversation also addresses the influence of religious context on fawning and the need to be aware of losing oneself. It emphasizes the power of healing and integration in the brain and the invitation to embrace and heal emotions, following Jesus' example.

Takeaways

• Fawning is a coping mechanism where individuals become overly accommodating and pleasing in order to feel safe and maintain connection.


• It is important to maintain autonomy in relationships and address conflicts directly rather than resorting to fawning or people-pleasing. Understanding the vulnerability behind fawning and the avoidance of personal hurt


• Learning to tolerate and understand emotions to make healthier choices


• Recognizing the impact of childhood traumas and emotional triggers


• The importance of story work in resetting the amygdala and offering care to oneself


• The role of the amygdala and prefrontal cortex in regulating responses


• Being aware of losing oneself in religious contexts and setting healthy boundaries


• The power of healing and integration in the brain to find shalom


• Embracing and healing emotions, following Jesus' example

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