• Guest: Derrick Chevalier — H-C (h-c.com), Evolve or Be Slaughtered (Amazon #1)
   
• Core ideas:
  
  • Negotiate people, not problems; products don’t change—people do
     
  • “Feel good” ≠ “win-win”; feelings aren’t facts
     
  • Persuasion vs influence: persuasion is seen, influence is felt
     
  • Antidote axiom: the antidote to any tactic is that tactic (or its opposite) elevated
     
  • Harmony > balance for life/work integration
     
• Tactics & frameworks:
  
  • Identify counterpart intent (not just demeanor)
     
  • When splitting the difference can be smart—and when it’s a trap
     
  • Cooperative empathy: share just enough of your constraints to co-design terms
     
  • Post-deal audit: judge outcomes by ROI over time, not end-of-meeting vibes
     
• Stories & examples:
  
  • From hostage talks to aerospace & automotive deals
     
  • Coaching a skeptic who becomes a “gold medallion” client and top negotiator/lawyer
     
  • Miles Davis “wrong chord → resolution” as a model for harmony
     
• Takeaways:
  
  • Prepare to discover what you don’t know about the other side
     
  • Don’t avoid “sales”—upgrade your definition and skill set
     
  • Use influence to align behavior, not manipulate
     
• Resources:
  
  • Book: Evolve or Be Slaughtered (Amazon)
     
  • Connect with Derrick: IG @derrick_chevalier, FB /anyproblemsolved, LI profile
     

Free 30-min consult link via h-c.com

 

Key Questions

(01:00 ) How did you get to be where you are today?

(03:43 ) Who do you serve today?

(05:38 ) So if I wanted to come work with you, what would be some of the criteria that you would be looking for?

(09:37 ) So on that note, how do you get in front of your potential client?

(12:34 ) What are some commonalities, mistakes, misconceptions that people have when they start working with you or when they come to you?

(25:24 ) Can you talk to us about how negotiation impacts everyday life, whether it's business or personal?

(30:41 ) Have you heard of Chris Voss?

(42:34 )  What is your take on balance in life and work?

(49:34 ) What is the best advice you have ever received?

(51:21 ) What's the best advice you've ever given?

(58:23 )  We've talked about a few things. Is there something that we haven't touched on yet that you would like to talk about?

(59:39 ) Where can we learn more about you and what you do and your book?

Derrick Chevalier

www.h-c.com

https://www.amazon.com/EVOLVE-Be-Slaughtered-Negotiation-Negotiating/dp/1965092543

www.linkedin.com/in/derrick-chevalier-6323272

https://www.instagram.com/derrick_chevalier/

https://www.facebook.com/anyproblemsolved

Virginia Purnell

Funnel & Visibility Specialist

Distinct Digital Marketing

(833) 762-5336

virginia@distinctdigitalmarketing.com

www.distinctdigitalmarketing.com