How to Build Instant Rapport (Just Ask This Question)
Description
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Hereâs the thing : in business and in life, most people focus on trying to be interesting. But if you want to build authentic relationships that last, the goal isnât to impress, itâs to be genuinely interested.
Think about it⌠have you ever met someone new and instantly felt a connection? Or on the flip side, struggled to break the ice and felt the conversation fall flat?
In this episode, Iâll reveal the ONE question you can ask to build instant rapport with anyone. Youâll learn how to spark genuine curiosity, create trust without trying too hard, and make every interaction feel natural and effortless.
What youâll learn in this episode:
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The psychology of instant rapport and why most people miss it
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The single best question to ask when meeting someone new
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How to use this principle in business, networking, and daily conversations
This video is perfect for leaders, entrepreneurs, and professionals who want to communicate with confidence, build strong connections fast, and leave a lasting impression in every room.
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TIMESTAMPSÂ :Â
0:00 Why rapport matters more than ever
1:16 The one powerful question to askÂ
2:23 How to ask story worthy questionÂ
5:12 5 key principles of asking better questions when building rapport
8:30 Final thoughts


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