TAME YOUR ADVICE MONSTER--how to advise and not regret it
Description
In this episode I explore the intricacies of giving advice at work. I draw attention to the unhelpful Gratuitous Advice Syndrome and damage it can cause.
The approach to advice-giving rests on individual experience and aims to be compassionate, considerate, and kind.
The episode begins by discussing how giving advice at work requires artful mastery, empathy, and finesse.
I delve deeper by sharing a case study of Aaron, who struggles with time management, and showcases how effective advice can be rendered without falling prey to instant solutions.
I stress the importance of active and attentive listening, asking clarifying questions, avoiding judgmental attitudes, and offering personalized guidance.
I highlight the potential benefits of offering high-quality professional advice, as it enhances influence in the workplace, bolsters co-worker's confidence, and bestows unique insights.
However, I warn how the Syndrome monster' can undermine one's impact if it oversteps boundaries, ignores context, or adopts a dictatorial approach.
This episode invites you to master the ability to offer constructive advice, empowering others to find solutions independently. It emphasises the critical role of self-reflection and collaborative problem-solving in creating an encouraging work environment.
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