Have you ever felt utterly helpless watching a loved one’s life unravel from substance abuse? The shame, guilt, and fear can leave you paralyzed, uncertain of how to approach the situation without making it worse. If you’ve grappled with these heavy emotions, you’re not alone.

In this raw, transformative interview, Dr. Andrea Arlington courageously shares her family’s brutal journey through her daughter’s heroin addiction. With unflinching honesty, she exposes how tough love can be a trauma trigger that hinders addiction recovery, and offers a new approach for family healing focused on compassion and understanding. 

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“Tough love is often a type of communication where the person speaking is coming from an authoritative tone of voice. This approach can trigger shame, which drives the same areas of the brain as trauma does. When a person feels traumatized, they will want to pursue their escape.” – Dr. Andrea Arlington



Dr. Andrea Arlington is an expert in family system healing and addiction recovery, applying lessons learned from her own daughter’s heroin addiction. Arlington’s tender vulnerability intertwined with clinical mastery sheds light on the often-misunderstood struggle with substance use disorder. You’ll emerge with a deeper grasp of addiction’s insidious grip, renewed hope for guiding your loved one towards healing, and perhaps most importantly – the self-compassion to forgive yourself along the way.

You’ll walk away from this compelling conversation with:



* A profound understanding of why “tough love” dangerously backfires (and the compassionate alternatives that actually work)

* Practical, word-for-word scripts to communicate from the heart when your loved one is under the influence

* Eye-opening insights into generational patterns that can unknowingly perpetuate substance use disorders

* Powerful emotion regulation techniques to stay centered and present as you support your loved one’s recovery

* A game-changing book recommendation packed with actionable steps tailored for families impacted by addiction



If you or someone you care about is battling substance abuse, this conversation could be the lifeline you’ve been searching for.

Resources:

Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) offers a free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)

Related Podcast Episode: Dangers of High Potency Marijuana with Laura Stack (Pub. 1/17/22)

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