Marriage can be a beautiful, yet complex journey filled with both joy and heartache. For Larry Bilotta, his own marital struggles became the catalyst for a profound personal transformation and a mission to help others overcome the challenges of relationships. In a captivating conversation with podcast host Walt Thiessen, Larry shared his powerful story and the insights he’s gained on the path to marital redemption.

At the heart of Larry’s journey was a marriage he describes as “27 years of hell.” Married to a strong-willed woman, Larry found himself as the “soft-hearted man” unable to compete with her demands. “I couldn’t really choose to be free to decide,” he explained, as the pressure of her expectations and his own subconscious programming to “stay married and miserable” kept him trapped in an unhealthy dynamic.

But it was through this crucible of pain that Larry began to uncover the root of his struggles – a profound lack of self-love. “I didn’t even like myself at all,” he confessed. “And so because I didn’t love myself, didn’t like myself, I couldn’t love her at all.” This realization became the catalyst for Larry’s personal transformation, as he embarked on a journey of self-discovery, pouring his heart into thousands of pages of writing and research.

“What I was doing is I’m collecting all the things I’m studying. Is that, like, if this means this, then this means right? So I’m literally building what I didn’t know I was building a course, but I built a course from what I was learning,” Larry shared. This course, which he now calls the “Environment Changing Program,” became the foundation for his mission to help others overcome the challenges of relationships by first addressing the inner turmoil within.

At the core of Larry’s approach is the concept of the “wrong mind” and the “right mind” – the former encompassing the negative, against-energy emotions and beliefs, and the latter representing the positive, loving energies. “When we start to get into the mind, we start to really realize that what we think, what we imagine and believe, changes the setting outside,” he explained.

This idea resonated deeply with Walt, who shared his own journey of moving from a small, oppositional worldview to one of embracing love and happiness. “I was always a good listener, but I had to become a really good listener. I had to become a listener way beyond where I had been before,” Walt reflected, emphasizing the power of listening to not only understand others but also to gain self-knowledge.

The conversation also delved into the nature of meaning and how it can be expanded to be more flexible and open to interpretation. “When you start to see, see you’re talking about energetic shifts, what you’re really talking Yeah, yeah, that’s a big shift of energy,” Larry observed. “And when you talked about, when you’re listening, when you’re learning, and when you’re teaching, when you’re learning. Because when you’re teaching, you’re thinking about, why do I even think about it this way. Why do I think about it that way?”

Throughout the discussion, Larry and Walt explored the concept of victimhood and its consequences in relationships, the power of thoughts, imagination, and beliefs to shape reality, and the importance of recognizing and managing “against energy” in personal growth. The conversation culminated in a heartfelt expression of gratitude from Walt, acknowledging the profound impact Larry has had on the lives of countless individuals through his tireless efforts.

Larry’s website:  https://larrybilotta.com/

Saving your marriage:  https://youcansavethismarriage.com/

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