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In this episode, the following topics are discussed in order

• (0:40 ) Being too seen and the consequences of it 
  • People will get too comfortable with you but not know you fr 
• (2:50 ) Getting other people's faces tattooed on you 
  • What if the person you get tatted turns out to be a P.O.S? 
  • Your body fluctuates that image my stretch or shrink
• (7:30 ) Why do people feel the need to engage with stuff they hate?  
  • People will go out of their way to disagree with you 
  • Going out of your way to avoid living in an echo chamber is admirable 
• (11:00 ) Sending a Happy Birthday text is the bare minimum 
  • You can schedule the message to be delivered later 
  • Saving contact bday in their name (pro-tip) 
  • Do women take birthdays more seriously than men? 
• (13:50 ) People will show you who they are in your time of need 
  • Pride will cause you to suffer when you don't have to 
  • Peeping how people maneuver will help you be aware next time, and you can govern yourself accordingly 
  • Keeping that same energy is a way to dodge accountability /be shitty 
• (18:30 ) No is a complete  sentence 
  • You don't owe people an explanation / people will weaponize the info you give them 
  • (19:00 ) Story about falling out as a result of talking too much yall be the judge 
  • Clear and concise communication will save you some headaches
• (24:07 ) Pageants should not exist 
  • Going out of your way to meet a child isn't great optics 
  • A pageant can lead to you being  hypercritical of everything you do 
  • Lots of pageant contestants are forced into it 
  • What's an appropriate age to enter that lifestyle?
  • Modeling can be something you are prepared for, and you still be surprised with the results 
• (31:00 ) Have beauty standards changed through time?
  • Are Beauty standards cyclical like fashion trends? 
• (35:30 ) Read The Room for all that is good and holy (story time)  
  • (39:40 ) Should you lead with what makes you different when meeting new people? 
• (41:10 ) Should you prioritize expressing your core beliefs or getting to know the other person when dating? And the pros and cons of both 
  • Is delaying certain convos a slippery slope? 
  • You want your partner to have your back in times of crisis / when facing adversity 
  • If you can't confide in your romantic partner, then who can you confide in? 
• (48:04 ) Why do people insist on people who do not like them? 
  • Could you be in a relationship where you were entirely reliant upon your partner financially?  

Also bonus treat for making yall wait so long I'mma start linking the song the episode is titled after (breaking news in case you hadn't caught on yet all the Eps be song lyrics)  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iBEtnyz2efE