In this episode, I share the one mindset shift that helped me finally get stronger in my 40s. For years, I held myself back with the thought, “I don’t want to hurt myself.” I break down how this belief keeps so many women stuck, why avoiding challenge actually increases our risk of injury as we age, and what changed for me when I finally let go of that fear.

I also share the conversations with my son, my husband, and even insights from big-wave surfer Laird Hamilton that completely transformed how I think about strength, aging, and discomfort. This episode will inspire you to push yourself, lift heavier, and trust your ability to adapt and grow.

What I Cover

• The surprising research on muscle loss in women as we age
• The real thought that stops most women from getting stronger
• How lifting heavier (and allowing discomfort) changed my strength quickly
• Why occasional injury is part of growth—not a sign to stop
• How I balance pushing myself with listening to my body

Key Takeaway

If you want to get stronger, you must shift the thoughts that are keeping you comfortable. Building strength requires mental courage, physical challenge, and a willingness to experience small setbacks along the way. You can become stronger than you think—at any age.

Interested in speaking with me about how we can work together? Click here to head to my website: https://courtneygraycoaching.com/ and schedule a free consultation with me.