In this episode, Ashley welcomes back guest Sarah Vogel to open up a vital conversation: where do our young men belong?

The two explore masculinity, societal expectations, and the emotional pressures boys face today. From “bigorexia” to toxic online influence, they unpack the complex messages shaping young male identity—and what’s missing.

They share personal stories and discuss the crucial role of schools, families, and communities in helping boys feel seen, heard, and safe to express who they are. Sarah and Ashley reflect on how role models, boundaries, and emotional education can support boys to grow into emotionally secure, resilient men.

The episode ends with a powerful reminder: meet your kids where they’re at—and start the conversation now.

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00:00 Welcome and the Big Question: Where Do Young Men Belong?
02:00 Modern Masculinity and Conflicting Messages
09:00 The Impact of Early Responsibility and Outdated Expectations
14:00 Toxic Influence, Online Culture, and Emotional Isolation
20:00 What Schools Are Missing and How They Can Improve
26:00 Why Boys Still Need Male Role Models and Safe Spaces
34:00 Representation, Risk, and Redefining Healthy Masculinity
44:00 What Families and Communities Can Do Today
56:00 Final Reflections and Closing Thoughts

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Email: sarah@contactpda.com

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