If you don't cry or dislike when someone around you cries, does that make you cold hearted? That's just one of the concerns that our listener wanted to tackle this week, as Helen and Katie explore her past childhood experiences and the lasting impact it's had on her ability to express her emotions.

TW: Physical abuse of a child

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•⁠  ⁠Do you hate saying no?
•⁠  ⁠⁠Do you avoid conflict at all costs?
•⁠  ⁠⁠Do you never feel good enough?
•⁠  ⁠⁠Do you feel like a burden?
•⁠  ⁠⁠Do you find it hard to ask for help…
•⁠  ⁠…⁠but do everything for everyone else?
•⁠  ⁠⁠Do you struggle to identify and hold boundaries? 

If that sounds like you, Building Change can help you change all that, whilst giving you a community to do it with. Coming soon - join the waitlist here.

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