In this episode, I talk about the common feeling of “everyone’s trying to sell me something” and how to avoid wasting time or money on the wrong solutions. I share my own experiences of jumping into offers too quickly, thinking they were signs, only to regret it later. The key lesson is that if I’m actively solving my own problems, I can spot whether an opportunity truly supports my goals or is just a distraction. I explain the Accountability Code, which starts with reflection, humility, and planning, so I can decide what fits my long-term vision before committing.

I also walk through the second half of the Accountability Code: implementing, commitment, and feedback. I give examples from my business and personal life, like hiring help for projects or finding a cleaning service, to show how important it is to protect boundaries, stay focused, and avoid getting sidetracked by offers that don’t match my needs. By sticking to this process, I make better decisions, keep momentum, and enjoy the work without being pulled in the wrong direction.

Key Topics Covered:

• How jumping into offers too quickly can lead to regret

• Why actively solving my own problems changes how I see opportunities

• The first step of the Accountability Code: reflection on goals, values, and possible solutions

• The second step: humility, acknowledging gaps in my understanding

• The third step: planning, how a solution fits into my long-term goals

• The risk of hiring others to do what I should be learning myself

• The importance of commitment to my original goals and boundaries

• How distractions can come disguised as “perfect” opportunities

• The last step of the Accountability Code: using feedback to improve decisions

• Why staying focused makes work easier, more enjoyable, and more successful

Marci Barker
Life Coach specializing in Accountability for Business Owners Author of The Accountability Code
It's Time to Wake Up and Show Up!
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