39. My Number One idea for harmony in your life and relationships. How to make a change now?

Update: 2022-07-16

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In this show we will talk about my best idea for correcting and maintaining relationships. That is the idea of what is going right and focusing on how to grow success. Many times we think pointing out the flaws is the best path to harmony, but I don't think that is right at all. That is certainly needed at times, but I don't believe it is a good recipe for success going forward. This show focuses on this and past conversations about pointing out what is going right and discusses the key points of this idea.

In this show we will answer questions like?

-What does pointing out what is going right even look like?

-If I don't point out the negative, how do I stop it?

-This seems counterintuitive. Does it really work? Yes.

-What is a great relationship technique I can do right now?

-Can anybody do this? Does this apply in all relationships? Yes and Yes

-Are there tips for success using this idea? Yes

-What stops people from pointing out what is going well? Fear and bad habits

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