41. The pause! Can you stop a fight and come back to something better? Healing conversation, not just more arguing.

Update: 2023-03-13

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In this show we talk about what to do during a pause. The fight is stopped or you want to come back to a sticky subject with a person. How do you do that and not just come back to conflict as bad as it was before? What if you want to bring up a sticky subject? Can you do it in a way that does not promote both people just defending themselves?

We also answer questions like..

-How can we change our conflict pattern?

-Can we learn to discuss something without the yelling?

-How to problem solve or even discuss hard subjects.

-Why do we always get into fights? Can't we just discuss something?

-What if my partner cant handle the truth? Maybe say it in a different way

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41. The pause! Can you stop a fight and come back to something better? Healing conversation, not just more arguing.

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41. The pause! Can you stop a fight and come back to something better? Healing conversation, not just more arguing.

Merrill Fink

41. The pause! Can you stop a fight and come back to something better? Healing conversation, not just more arguing.