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61: Heterosexual History pt.2: Reclaiming Desire, Rage & Truth

61: Heterosexual History pt.2: Reclaiming Desire, Rage & Truth

Update: 2025-07-16
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“Straight people, are you okay?”
In part two of our electric conversation about The Tragedy of Heterosexuality by Jane Ward, Britta and Quinn leave behind history class and drop into the raw, personal reality of living inside a system not built for emotional or erotic fulfillment—especially for women.

💔 We go there:

  • What it feels like to be in a marriage that deadens desire and gaslights your truth
  • The silent epidemic of women waking up every day thinking, “I wish I was dead”
  • Sex as performance vs. sex as presence—and how to tell the difference
  • Why even “good guys” can’t save you from a bad system
  • The double-bind of men and how patriarchy imprisons them too
  • What straight women can learn from queer wisdom, radical community, and conscious pleasure

🎤 We confess:

  • The rage, numbness, and exhaustion that haunted us before our glow-ups
  • How our Mormon trad-wife pasts trained us to uphold patriarchy
  • What finally woke us up—and how coaching, queerness, and community saved us

🌈 We offer:

  • Four exit ramps from the tragedy of heterosexuality
  • A new vision for relationships rooted in truth, consent, creativity, and community
  • The hope that another way isn’t just possible—it’s already happening

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Is this it?”—this episode is your full-body YES to more.

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Email: quinn@postdivorceglowup.com

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61: Heterosexual History pt.2: Reclaiming Desire, Rage & Truth

61: Heterosexual History pt.2: Reclaiming Desire, Rage & Truth

Quinn Otrera