EP. 71 Catch Yourself Thinking: How to Stop Negative Thoughts & Become Your Own Hero
Description
In this solo episode of Do I Really Hate Men, Ang dives deep into the power of self-recognition and self-regulation—two tools that can transform how we think and react every day. She shares practical, heartfelt advice on breaking free from negative thought loops and becoming the true hero of your own story. With warmth, humor, and relatable insight, Ang walks listeners through her "Catch Yourself Thinking" method and the "H+E+R+O" formula for mastering emotional control. This episode is your reminder that you hold the power to change your mindset, take back your confidence, and create calm in your own storm.
(00:00 ) Introduction and Welcome
(00:25 )Autumn Reflections and Christmas Anticipation
(01:58 ) Self-Recognition: Catch Yourself Thinking
(07:58 ) Transformative Tool: Be the HERO of Your Story
(14:25 ) Conclusion and Call to Action
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Practice Catch Yourself Thinking to recognize and interrupt negative self-talk.
Use visual or phone reminders (like "CYT") to build self-awareness throughout your day.
Apply the H+E+R+O formula—Halt, Event, Response, Outcome—to regulate emotions and reactions.
Confidence isn't about control—it's about trusting your ability to handle anything life throws at you
BEST MOMENTS
"You're not the kind of person that needs rescuing—you're the one who knows you've got this."
"Every time you pause instead of react, you're strengthening that beautiful muscle called self-control."
"Catch yourself thinking—because your inner critic doesn't get to run the show anymore."
"Be the calm in your own storm and turn it into a bright summer's day, one heroic response at a time."
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