This week, Ang welcomes Claire Higham, an experienced associate solicitor specializing in family law at Slater Heelis. With over 16 years in the field, Claire brings insight into navigating complex and emotional divorce cases, from high-value financial disputes to sensitive children's matters, as well as IVF, surrogacy, and private adoptions. The conversation delves into Claire's unconventional path to law, her people-focused approach, and practical advice for anyone considering or going through a separation.

 

(00:00 ) Introduction and Guest Introduction

(00:40 ) Claire's Background and Experience

(01:56 ) Journey into Family Law

(03:12 ) Challenges and Emotional Aspects of Family Law

(04:39 ) Importance of Early Legal Advice

(06:40 ) Misconceptions and Realities of Legal Proceedings

(09:27 ) Initial Consultation and Client Rapport

(17:32 ) Court Proceedings and Mediation

(19:32 ) The Impact of Parental Alienation

(20:28 ) Legal Aid and Abuse Allegations

(22:53 ) Navigating Legal Representation

(25:16 ) Modern Family Dynamics

(26:58 ) Personal IVF Journey

(32:55 ) Balancing Career and Family

(34:02 ) Advice for Divorce Journey

(35:50 ) Conclusion and Contact Information

 

KEY TAKEAWAYS

Early legal advice is vital—waiting until communication breaks down often makes the process harder and more stressful.

Every divorce case is unique; advice from friends or online sources can be misleading and unhelpful.

Involving a solicitor does not have to make things adversarial—good lawyers prioritize resolution and keeping matters out of court when possible.

BEST MOMENTS

 

"It's one of the most traumatic periods in a person's life... they say it's like a bereavement , when you go through a separation."

"Google is not your best friend. Lying in bed at three o'clock in the morning Googling divorces... is not the thing to do."

"Every case is individual and all the facts are individual to you."

GUEST LINKS

LinkedIN https://www.linkedin.com/in/claire-higham-b74b4837/
https://www.slaterheelis.co.uk/

EPISODE LINKS

 

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ABOUT THE PODCAST

 

Do I Really Hate Men?

 

Interesting question and one I have asked myself many times. This is not an 'I hate men' podcast neither is it just an account of my divorce and the many awful events leading up to and during it. This podcast is a safe space to delve into what happens when relationships end, it provides guidance on how to carry on being a functioning adult and/or Single Mum when you feel broken inside. 

 

This podcast provides hope sprinkled with humour, at times its emotional at times inspiring and at times sad. I have a message to share with women around the world, come join me and your global sisters for a weekly dose of Superhero Mum inspiration and stories.

 

My mission - to help women and mothers globally to recover from relationship pain,  lead meaningful happy lives and inspire their children to succeed.

 

NOTE – I need you to know that I don't hate men! It's important that you know there are many great men out there. Many fantastic fathers and single fathers trying hard to do a great job. I know little about the struggles of single fathers; however, I presume they are numerous common issues we share with these amazing men who strive to do the right thing by their children. 

 

ABOUT THE HOST

 

Ang is first and foremost a very proud Mum. She is on a mission to share her experiences of both divorce and life as a single Mum. With a 25 year career in the corporate world, she has always been passionate about empowering women and those around her. She is a fully qualified life coach of 20 years and a self confessed self development junkie.

 

Ang has written her first book called 'Do I Really Hate Men', due to be released later this year which NEEDS to be read by women worldwide. With a high level of emotional intelligence she works tirelessly to improve the lives of womankind through her words, both digitally and at speaking events globally. 

 

With a six year divorce behind her, Ang represented herself in court a total of 6 times. She has been a single parent of two boys for a total of 14 years. She has lived through the struggles and come out the other side. Her words, honesty and humour captivates her audience.