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Your hosts are Kitty and Johnson, and we can’t wait to dive head first into all of the delicious, intriguing, funny and fun things that are sex.

DK Green is an absolute WEALTH of knowledge as a psychotherapist, Shamanic practitioner, supervisor, mentor, advance accredited, advance trainer trained, associate lecturer and key note speaker for Pink Therapy specialising in GSRD subjects.

In this episode we enter into the conversation of BDSM in truly the most delicious way possible.

DK shares the practical description of what BDSM stands for- Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism.
And while there is so much in each of these areas of BDSM DK breaks down so eloquently the potential for growth, connection and exploration they each hold.
He has had decades of experience with BDSM- particularly with leather (hence the nickname DK Leather) which is his absolute passion.

For anyone completely new into their BDSM exploration DK gives some great tips for starting out. He shares this wonderful piece of wisdom- “the biggest erogenous zone we have is our brain and the toy we already have is our body.”
He busts some common myths when it comes to Dom/Sub connections around consensual power exchange and a multitude of benefits that can come from it. DK also shares how there are often glimpses into BDSM in a lot of “vanilla” sexual interactions. It is not always all whips and chains!

The conversations around exploring sensation play, in this episode, are so informative and give SO many ideas for either beginning or expanding your current experiences. From being able to use utensils around the home, to trying out sensations on different parts of the body and then info on some of the more advanced toys that can be used.

We raise important points in this discussion around informed consent and radical responsibility when entering into BDSM and also about how powerful presence, open-mindedness and effective communication all are as tools for the best experience possible.

DK shares so much from his own lived experience and work with clients around the lighter side of BDSM, as well as some psychology around other explorations such as age play, rape fantasies, intensive sensation play, rage play, needle play, medical play etc.

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