A major point in terms of “how can evolutionary psychology benefit the dating life of a woman” rests in the notion that there is no such thing as a “dating guru.”

There is just the woman, herself, and SHE is the most competent “dating guru’ for herself.

These are a set of tools to fit the personality of and goals of the specific woman who wants to get a sense of what’s really going on in the dating behavior going on all around her.

It isn’t meant to be “therapy” or medical treatment and isn’t a reasonable substitute for those.

However, the material here is a place to start with great curiosity about how the mind works in courtship. To realize that every animal species on the planet has “mating rituals” that follow a sequence.

When the sequence proceeds smoothly, timely, and correctly, the male and female mate. When one of those factors and timing are not present, then mating does not occur.

Humans are animals and so we are no exception.

There must certainly be a human process of courtship, step by step, which has not been detailed in its processes until now.

We have brought together here our best effort at determining the “steps” involved and the “three phases” as a framework of 1. sexual attraction, 2. emotional attraction (friendship, love), and 3. intellectual attraction (goals, success, communication, teamwork.)

We close the talk with the personal example of a member of the program who worked on her mood surrounding this topic (courtship), in which she found more accurate focus on what she wanted more of in her life, and start on gaining the skills and recourses to obtain that.

Upgraded members will have access to the entire program of audios as a training course.

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