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Dr Paul’s discussion emphasizes the importance of showing admiration toward a man as a crucial step in attraction. It suggests using physical signals—such as tilting the head, flipping hair, maintaining eye contact, and smiling—to indicate interest.

When conversing, complimenting aspects of his career or mission that you find admirable is recommended. However, there are three potential pitfalls:

1. **Attention Seekers**: He may simply enjoy the attention and not be genuinely interested in a deeper connection. If after a few minutes he seems more interested in the attention than a meaningful conversation, it’s best to disengage.

2. **Sharing Too Much Too Soon**: He might reveal personal details or emotional issues too quickly, which can lead to discomfort or reveal incompatibilities.

3. **Overcommunication**: Initial conversations should be brief to avoid overwhelm and to maintain an air of mystery, ideally engaging in short interactions or “flybys” before deciding to pursue further.

Overall, the key takeaway is to engage in meaningful but cautious interactions, balancing admiration with awareness of his demeanor and communication style.

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