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Leaving an Abusive Environment Feels Like Defying Gravity

Leaving an Abusive Environment Feels Like Defying Gravity

Update: 2024-12-05
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In this Short Talk on Talks with Dr Shafer, Dr. Shafer reflects on the themes of empowerment and self-acceptance through the lens of the musical 'Wicked' and it's show-stopping song, "Defying Gravity." 


Dr Shafer draws parallels between the characters Elphaba and Glinda and the challenges faced in abusive relationships involving coercive control and flying monkeys, emphasizing the importance of making choices that align with one's true self. The discussion highlights the journey of breaking free from limiting beliefs and the power of storytelling in reclaiming one's story. Leaving an abusive relationship can feel like defying gravity.




Takeaways: 



  • Elphaba's journey represents the struggle for self-acceptance.

  • The cost of conformity can be greater than the cost of standing alone.

  • Recognizing one's true worth is essential for empowerment.

  • Breaking free from limiting beliefs is a crucial step in personal growth.

  • Love should empower, not confine.

  • The importance of trusting one's instincts in difficult situations.

  • Storytelling can be a powerful tool for healing and empowerment.

  • Understanding the dynamics of control can help in reclaiming one's narrative.

  • Empowerment comes from within, not from external validation.



Dr Shafer Stedron, MD is a musician turned Neurologist, a mom, a Jay Shetty-Certified Life Coach, an Author, Publisher, and so much more. She is passionate about helping others reclaim their stories and build their most beautiful future, unlocking their fullest potential informed by her background in neurology, psychology, business and entertainment. 




Dr. Shafer's story is one of triumph, self-awareness, and tireless creation. As she has reclaimed her own story, rebuilding her life after difficult experiences, she launched We Don’t Tell Our Stories, an online community to help people suffering from Domestic Abuse and Intimate Partner Violence. Her love of writing inspired her to launch Little House of Dreams Publishing, a children’s literature publishing house focused on sharing the stories of children. Dr Shafer believes it is never too early to show young people how important their voice truly is, and the power they possess to create a better world. 




Connect with Dr. Shafer: https://drshaferstedronova.com/ 




To watch inspiring and informative Talks with Dr Shafer head to her YouTube Channel:    / @talkswithdrshafer  




This episode does not offer individualized medical advice. Opinions discussed are for informational purposes only, and should not be considered medical advice.




Little House Of Dreams Entertainment, LLC, 2024. 




All Rights Reserved. 




Music Credit: Shafer Yost, Impulse

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Leaving an Abusive Environment Feels Like Defying Gravity

Leaving an Abusive Environment Feels Like Defying Gravity

Shafer Stedron, MD